DO YOU HAVE A HEALTHY VIEW OF MEN?

YES ✔️ Amazing! As a woman, you are connected to the collective wounding all women have, and maybe had your own traumatic experiences yourself, but you've gone through a process of healing that allows you to not fear or resent all men. It means your man can feel truly seen by you without having the wrongs of other men projected onto him. You can share the wounded parts of you in a way that is clean, vulnerable, and inviting for him to meet you there, which allows for even more healing of this wound.

NO ❌ It's not your fault you have this wounding, but he's also not obliged to have that wounding projected onto him. The truth is, if you carry wounding from the past, it's also not HIS fault you have that wounding. The solution is to learn how to feel when the emotional response you're having is really about him or a shadow from the past. Your clarity around that not only makes you safe for him to get close to, it can invite him to be a part of the healing process!