So many of the women we’ve helped felt like they had a pattern of over-giving.

”I’ve given and given but got nothing back”

The women who have been in a long-term relationship resent anything that feels like ‘serving’ their man - they are sick of their support not being appreciated!

And women who are out of relationship are afraid to give to someone new in case they feel used again.

Here’s the thing with ‘over giving’…

The problem is never about giving too much.

It’s about giving-to-get and giving from emptiness.

Listen, there’s nothing wrong with having healthy expectations in a relationship.

The problem is actually when those expectations are unconscious and unspoken.

Where you give not because you are so FULL of love…

You give because there is actually some kind of EMPTINESS you’re wanting him to fill for you in exchange for your giving.

And this ‘silent’ contract is the problem…

Because it creates an energetic imbalance that closes his heart instead of opening it.

He won’t know why consciously, but you will notice that he just doesn’t seem to appreciate the love and support you give him…

Somehow, he just can’t fully received it.

And when you try to talk to him about it, nothing changes. He just can’t receive your love.

Or when you meet someone new, you feel like this guy just doesn’t appreciate what you have to give.

And this is where most women give up, shut down and pull away… which only hurts them more 💔

It’s not their fault.

They just haven’t been taught how to truly be in their power.

But what we do is show our women how to give to themselves first.

So that whatever they have to give to him, comes from the OVERFLOW of love they have already cultivated within themselves.

With zero fear or hidden neediness.

They show up as Queens.

And THAT is what makes his heart fly wide open 😍

When you start to live from a place of effortless generosity, you see the men in your life suddenly receiving your love fully.

(Note the word ‘effortless’… that means it doesn’t cost you anything)

Suddenly, you feel your giving is appreciated, seen, valued, desired…

And, then, RETURNED.

The secret is to outgrow the princess-thinking that makes relationships all about “sharing the work” and “50/50 effort”.

If you believe relationships require ‘hard work’, all your relationships will be hard work.

And the man in your life will sense that this is what he’s being ‘signed up’ for.

But when you step into your power, like you’ve seen the women do in our success stories, you realize that relationships don’t have to be about ‘work’ at all.

And that the secret to ‘getting’ what you want from him, is to learn how to give to yourself first 👑❤️

We see it all the time…

This is the kind of woman a man automatically shows up for… Not because he feels like he ‘owes’ her, but because he simply feels inspired to.

 Ready to let go of the conditioning that is stopping your love being fully appreciated?